A Player Or A Loser?

When you find yourself in a bar, don’t go on pretending that you are a player when you are not just to attract women. Take note that women can easily distinguish which are posers from the real ones. But what is a player? And why some men wanted to be one?

A player is basically someone who is adept at seducing women. He is good at what he does. A true player does not brag about it, but he can sure please a woman at any given time. Posers, on the other hand, believe that they are true players and think that they can bed any girl who comes along their way. This is why there is a bad connotation about players. Even when you sleep with a lot of women, it doesn’t prove that you are a true-blue player. A true player respects women. He is neither self-righteous nor self-centered. He is not doing all these just for himself but for his partner as well.

Whether he wants to bed a girl or not, it’s another matter. After all, seducing women is not just about sex. But when it comes to that, a player does it with care. One can say that a player revels in the charms of women—and he will let them feel exactly how he feels because he would return the favor. He does not take all the pleasure for himself. He shares it. A poser, on the other hand, exactly does the opposite. For these shallow men, it’s all about the quantity and not the quality.