Deal With It!

Lack of self-confidence is a common problem with most guys. They think that they can’t get the woman they really want. But hey, this is not really a big deal!

Seduction happens from a simple conversation to a more intense love making. Any guy can do this, may he be a handsome guy or not. Well, it is much easier to have a small talk with a woman. You can ask her anything you want or anything under the sun in a not too serious mode of asking. However, getting her into your bedroom is a harder one. You have to be aware of the right techniques on how to deal with seducing the woman that you want.

First, you should make yourself attractive to her. How? When you are having a conversation with her, make sure that you are flirting at the same time and include sex as your hot topic. You should work on being trustworthy during your conversation.

Second, while having your conversation, try to have physical contacts with her. With simple touch you can create chemistry and attraction which can then lead for you to move to a more private place. Now it’s the time to kiss her passionately. It is still important to do the kissing in a slower and lighter way. And when the intensity builds up, sex will be the next agenda. It is just fine to tease her by kissing her neck and pulling her hair up. Taking your time is the key to dealing with seduction. Whew!

Dating Tips For The Clueless Man

So this is your first date with the woman you’ve been dreaming about. Are you ready? Sure you are (add sarcastic voice here), as ready as a teenager about to face his first day of his high school life.

Worry no more! Here are some sure fire tips on dating that even the most clueless guy can follow.

1) Never sport the “out of office” look. Be presentable as possible. First impressions last. Remember how you studied very hard for that class you had in college because the professor in that class scared the heck out of you on the first day of the semester? Same principle.

2) Be on time. Women absolutely hate tardy guys. Better be the one waiting than the girl waiting for you. Its a major turn off to have to wait for a man.

3) Plan your date. Most girls hate a date without any direction. Tell her an idea of your “itinerary”. But it does not have to be strictly followed, allow the girl to provide inputs on where to go, what to do, etcetera. Make your date plans “interactive” so to speak.

4) Never dominate the conversation, encourage her to talk, and you yourself, you have to open up. Listen to what she is saying, she is dropping hints on what her interest are, and stuff about her that you might find interesting too. But be careful, don’t ask too many questions. Most women are irritated with men who asks too much. It’s supposed to be a date, not an interrogation session!