Dating Tips For The Clueless Man

So this is your first date with the woman you’ve been dreaming about. Are you ready? Sure you are (add sarcastic voice here), as ready as a teenager about to face his first day of his high school life.

Worry no more! Here are some sure fire tips on dating that even the most clueless guy can follow.

1) Never sport the “out of office” look. Be presentable as possible. First impressions last. Remember how you studied very hard for that class you had in college because the professor in that class scared the heck out of you on the first day of the semester? Same principle.

2) Be on time. Women absolutely hate tardy guys. Better be the one waiting than the girl waiting for you. Its a major turn off to have to wait for a man.

3) Plan your date. Most girls hate a date without any direction. Tell her an idea of your “itinerary”. But it does not have to be strictly followed, allow the girl to provide inputs on where to go, what to do, etcetera. Make your date plans “interactive” so to speak.

4) Never dominate the conversation, encourage her to talk, and you yourself, you have to open up. Listen to what she is saying, she is dropping hints on what her interest are, and stuff about her that you might find interesting too. But be careful, don’t ask too many questions. Most women are irritated with men who asks too much. It’s supposed to be a date, not an interrogation session!

Wanted: A Better Dating Experience

In reality, there is no such thing as a dating expert. No one really knows the exact way to have the perfect date with anyone, anywhere. Nowadays, many men brag that they do know the best techniques to having a good date. Let me tell you that it’s just a lie! Never believe them! Because the truth is any guy can have a great date by just doing their best. But I will give some of the basic tips to have a better dating experience.

Planning and preparing ahead are important things to consider if you wish to have a good date. You just have to stop and think for awhile about the qualities of a woman that you are looking for. You have to make this quest a serious one but not too serious.

Furthermore, you have to look physically attractive on your date. We all know that not all of you guys were born handsome, but at least just make an effort to look good. In this way, you can gain more self-confidence and self-esteem. However, you have to make sure that your self-confidence can still be controlled to avoid being bold and brash. Overly brag guys cannot attract any women. Moreover, always leave some mystery about yourself. Never tell everything about you to avoid a boring moment. This can make your dating experience an exciting one not only for you but also for your date.

I hope that the above tips can help you make your dating experience a better one. Good luck!