Things Never To Say On A Hot Date

People often say the darnest things, and this is especially true on first time dates. Usually this happens not because both parties want to be offensive in any way, but because there is that nervous strain resting on both the guy and girl. From a guy’s point of view: sometimes, we are so desperate to impress the girl, we tend to blurt out topics which we know should never be said. Often too, we do not even realize the damage we’ve done until the girl walks out on us.

So here are a few personal guidelines as to the things guys should never say on a hot date.

1. My last girlfriend / wife left me because … This is the biggest uh-uh in the offing in case you want to see this girl more. You are practically stirring a hornet’s nest here, and guess who will be stung? Keep your conversation positive and focused on your date. You certainly will not feel comfortable if she started about her exes.

2. I got this great software that can help me elevate my pips during non-trading hours. So okay, you are a trading junkie but does she really need to know that? I mean seriously; this is what you want to talk about on a first date? Even if she is a trading junkie as well, talking shop is not the best way to a girl’s heart.

3. My brother cut his hand this morning and there was blood all over the place. This type of conversation is okay if you are hanging out with your buddies over beer and Buffalo wings. As a rule, though, girls find this a bit too much –especially if you just ordered an extra rare steak.

4. I hate my job; my car just died on me; my neighbor makes too much noise. There is a difference between wining and dining a girl and just simply whining. Keep your negative comments at bay. You certainly do not want to frighten her away.

How To Tell If She Likes You

Some men think it’s totally difficult to know whether a girl likes them or not. Some men, on the other hand, know the tell-tale signs of a girl who’s interested. This article will let you know those secrets so that the next time you’re on a date, you won’t have to panic.

The common signs of interest that you have to look out for are many. In general, girls will manifest these signs on the first date. This is when they gauge the chemistry and decide whether you’re worth a second date or not. It is thus imperative that you be on your best behavior on your first date – punctual, polite, witty, and romantic.

The first clue you have to search for is eye contact. Girls are known to know exactly what they want and they don’t mesh their words around once they’ve found a likeable prospect. When a girl likes you, she’ll talk to you straight from the heart and will look at you straight in the eye to see if you’re listening to her or are interested in what she has to say.

Apart from lots of eye contact with you, you’ll know that a girl likes you if she smiles at you often. Girls, unlike boys, can hardly fake emotions, much more feign affection. If a girl digs you, she wouldn’t be able to hold off her excitement and delight, which she’d be manifesting through her smile. Of course, aside from smiling, she’ll be laughing at your jokes and with (not at) you when her interest level is raised.