A Player Or A Loser?

When you find yourself in a bar, don’t go on pretending that you are a player when you are not just to attract women. Take note that women can easily distinguish which are posers from the real ones. But what is a player? And why some men wanted to be one?

A player is basically someone who is adept at seducing women. He is good at what he does. A true player does not brag about it, but he can sure please a woman at any given time. Posers, on the other hand, believe that they are true players and think that they can bed any girl who comes along their way. This is why there is a bad connotation about players. Even when you sleep with a lot of women, it doesn’t prove that you are a true-blue player. A true player respects women. He is neither self-righteous nor self-centered. He is not doing all these just for himself but for his partner as well.

Whether he wants to bed a girl or not, it’s another matter. After all, seducing women is not just about sex. But when it comes to that, a player does it with care. One can say that a player revels in the charms of women—and he will let them feel exactly how he feels because he would return the favor. He does not take all the pleasure for himself. He shares it. A poser, on the other hand, exactly does the opposite. For these shallow men, it’s all about the quantity and not the quality.

How to Seduce a Woman

Seduction has both a negative and positive connotation. But whatever it is, there are still some curious guys who want to have an idea on how to seduce a woman.

Before getting in the sack, there are some steps that should be considered in building seduction. The first one is to pick out and select a woman you want. You should consider both of your location as well as her likes and dislikes. Second, is to approach her and ask her some few questions about anything which is not too serious.

Then, you should now create a rapport because you are now into the process of seduction. Here, you can ask her again about few questions which are deeper compared to the previous one but still in a light-hearted manner. Next, is that you have to make her feel comfortable with your presence. This may take you a few days or even weeks. Just make her accustomed to your touch. And finally, get her into your bedroom even just for one time only. There are so many ways on how to get her. Say for example, if you want to cook for her, ask her if she can help you out and then grab gently her waist and look straight to her.

It is human nature that guys always make the first move. Because it is promiscuous of a woman if she will be the one to do the first move, which is not good. So if you get the chance, go for it and have fun. Indeed, seducing a woman is a very hot topic!